Baby

I just got news from my ex-schoolmate, saying that my friend (used to be very close, sat next to me in class) gave birth to another baby. Ya...I mean second child. I am shocked. I didn't even know that she was pregnant and now. Oh wow! I can't believe it. Anyway, good for her. First a boy. Now a girl.

Speaking of babies... people have been asking me again and again. Ya…ya...who doesn't know that after getting married, the next thing is to have babies. Of course I know. I'm not lulu. When you paktor, they ask you when you're getting married, when you're married they ask you when you're having babies, when you have babies, they ask you when your children are getting married....go on and on and on... Asians have a funny way of saying they care.

Just that having babies is the topic for two of us. We have our plan and we've said thousand and one time that not now...in a few years to come perhaps. They just don't understand especially the aunties. Seriously, to me 1st of all, both of us are not prepared at all...I mean NOT AT ALL. We want to have honeymoon years 1st. I love to travel, going here and there. Then, you think nowadays babies are free ar? Need a lot of money.

Anyway, we're quite stern(stubborn) on this. No matter who says this lar...that lar...it won't affect our decision. In-laws not pressuring, thank God. Doesn't matter if their hearts want (like what a lot of people said). If they want, they make babies la. haha! But if accident happens, let's accept it. Maybe it's God's Will lor....